This past weekend I competed in my first ever International
Crossfit competition called the European Masters Throwdown in Budapest. I have
qualified for this event for the last 2 years however I did not attend the finals
last year for 2 reasons really, firstly I didn’t think I qualified high enough
to justify the trip, and secondly, In my head I just couldn’t justify £500+ quid
for me to go away for a weekend competition when that could potentially be a
week camping with the family (or something similar).
This year however I qualified slightly higher which made me
think that the trip would be worthwhile if we could afford it. Furthermore my
logic was that as I get older it may become more and more difficult to qualify for
such events and so I should make the most of these opportunities whilst I still
can. I was also thinking that from an inspirational perspective that it would
be great for the kids to see their Dad competing in an International competition
and hopefully motivate them in whatever sporting activities they chose to
pursue in their life’s.
Anyway you are probably wondering why I am writing about my
competition on a blog that should be dedicated to our three children. Well the
answer there is to do with family support and helping out your siblings
whenever you can. You see with all the justification outlined in the second
paragraph, the fact of the matter is that there is no way I could have afforded
to selfishly take myself away for a weekend for one competition without the
backing of the family. Or if I did it would be at the expense of our family
holiday.
So for my birthday this year I asked everyone to not get me
a present and instead give me some money which I would put towards some of the
costs associated with this trip (flights, hotel, food, taxi’s….. and so on). I
was extremely grateful for the birthday money but even that only covered a
small portion of the costs of the trip. So that’s where my little Sister steps
in and sets up various fund raising initiatives successfully managing to raise a
significant amount of money to help cover the costs of the trip.
Without a shadow of a doubt there is no way I could of, or would
of gone to Budapest without the birthday money and the money which Lisa helped
raise. I hate asking for money and would never even contemplate asking unless
things were really desperate, so for Lisa to help out as much as she did pulling
this together and for everyone who contributed to her fund raising ideas, it is just incredible.
The weekend in Budapest was one of the most amazing weekends
I have had with some great friends. I exceeded my goal of finishing higher than
I qualified and also achieved my stretched objective to make the semi-finals. I
achieved some PB’s across a few events, won a heat beating a Games level
athlete and also managed my first ever bar muscle up having been trying them
for 3 years +. But none of that is what I want Joshua, Brandon and Holly to
take from this whole experience. What I want them to learn and appreciate is
how valuable your siblings are, to remain close and to support each other
throughout life in whatever way you can. I would be more prouder seeing my kids
helping each other out as my sisters and brother have helped me, than any
amount of muscle ups they might be able to do one day.
Weekend away with Crossfit buddies Nik and Brian was amazing. |
Getting my first bar muscle up at the European Champs was just an incredible moment. |
But having a supportive family is better than both of the above! |
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